Changeling

We left behind our borrowed scrubs
and thank-you notes for the surgeons
and something else, something I
should know but can’t remember,
some intimacy, some former idea
of the body as — no, it was not
the body, ever, but a different kind
of haven. We left it behind. Or it
never existed. Look, there’s no point
in not asking: Did we escape,
or didn’t we? I think about this
constantly. In the kitchen I push
on a loaf and it yields and yields
and the yeast are exhaling their
death-breaths into the flour.
I don’t know how to make bread.
I don’t know who lived and who
made it home. Instead,
I cook him plums. He’s just started
to eat soft fruit. They told me to
strip the purple skin, flappy
on the flesh, but when I do
it recalls the viscera of sunrise,
yellow pink pulp deliquescing
over the rooftops, the helicopter pad,
the peace garden, that useless
pile of weeds. One botanical use
of deliquesce is to form many small
branches. In which universe
are we living now? The one
where he lived, the one
where he died, the one
where I die, the one
where we all live
and eat plums together.
Whose child am I feeding?
Whose hands are disemboweling
plums? He flips the spoon
and dumps it, grins at me.
Will we pay for it later, like a bad movie
about a deal with the devil where
we think we got what we wanted?
Scar tissue, or a petal puckering under rain.
Hail. It gets harder. He may be fine. Don’t
doubt. (But I do not trust him
to inhabit his own body.) Let the icy
fists unclench a little. Beware
pared fingernails on the floor,
their unexpected edges.
I used to be a person who let things
go, who saw gardens mostly as
adjectives: wild or abundant.
Now I see verbs: rot, root, sprout.
A host of possible becomings
gnawed back by caterpillars
and cabbage moths. What happened
to the tulips? They bled out in vases,
their milky green throats snipped
and draining into a cup. Oh severed
ends. The scrubs lying in a pile
on the hospital floor. Tell me, please
tell me, if I made it out alive.
What version of the movie
is our life? His lungs
like dead moth’s wings.
Heart clenching its beats
like a clam clutching
seawater. Leaky
fist. Pushing it out, the salt,
the hurt, if he died I would fall
and fall and fall. And yet
he laughs as I cut away
the soft parts of fruit,
the bruises, the narrow
tear-shaped seeds. He opens
his mouth like a boy, this creature
who came home with us.

Image: photo by Chris Buckwald on Unsplash, licensed under CC 2.0.

Caitlin Dwyer:
My son came home from the hospital at four weeks old after several surgeries, countless x-rays, and many unsuccessful—and one successful—attempts to save his life. The time between my emergency c-section and his eventual release from the pediatric ICU had been the worst month of my life. Parenthood had, like a parasite, entered and controlled me from within. The main emotions of motherhood were unresolvable uncertainty and loss of control.

This poem is an attempt to reckon with being on the other side of that situation: safe, home, together as a family. My son came home, tube-fed, with an uncertain long-term outcome but for the moment, healthy and safe. When you expect someone to die, then their healing is a gift suffused with doubt. I wanted to explore the severity of that swerve, the feelings of suspicion and mistrust that ripple in wellbeing’s wake. To do that, I used conjunctions as hinges to swing back and forth between safety and the feeling of being over the abyss, like an unlatched door in a storm. I worked with unresolved contradiction, juxtaposing two opposite images or statements and letting them sit line by line, side by side, without resolving the discomfort in the reader’s (or my own) mind. Finally, I allowed large associative leaps, leaning into the unexpected, letting image association guide and motivate the poem – mimicking the way a worried caretaker’s mind might race and retract as it seeks answers.

Caitlin Dwyer
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